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What To Do First to Make a Profit

The PF Women Team at our Annual Team Retreat  ~ 2018 Today on Seth Godin's blog, he said: It's tempting to decide to make a profit first, then invest in training, people, facilities, promotion, customer service and most of all, doing important work. In general, though, it goes the other way. Yes, it does. If you are waiting to make a profit before you do these things, in my experience you're  not going to make a profit. So many organizations, ministries and churches are struggling with financial issues. I know your pain. As anyone who follows our story knows, our ministry was in a ton of debt four years ago when I came on as director.  Since that time, we've gotten out of debt and turned a profit every year.  God has done amazing things through out team, for which we give Him the glory! I find that what Seth is saying here is absolutely true, with one disclaimer. For Christian leaders, spiritual disciplines must always be first. Before we started i...

Dominoes is SERIOUS about delivery!

I want this blog to be a place where people at least occasionally learn something.  Here's your lesson for the day.  If you are going to go to a cabin in a remote location, traveling on steep and winding roads that may start to ice over, get groceries FIRST. We made the mistake of going to the cabin first to inventory what supplies the kitchen already had before going to the grocery store...and when we tried to leave to get groceries, we almost died slipping and sliding on a trecherous hill couldn't make it.  Yep.  We were trapped.  This cabin is a wonderful place to be trapped, but we want something to eat while we're trapped.   There was a little bit of snow and ice very steep and winding hills leading to the cabin.  At first glance, this sprinkling of snow seems like no big deal, especially for a man who lived in Pittsburgh most of his life and navigated snowy roads.  But there was also ice along with the snow and when w...

Marriage is harder than parenting

Larry and I left yesterday afternoon after church to go on our trip to Gatlinburg, Tennessee. It was a great morning at church and we were really thankful for that. It had been difficult the day or two before with some some unforeseen things in our work at the church and we actually contemplated cancelling the trip, but our desire to be away together won out. We drove the majority of the way yesterday until we were tired and stopped to get a hotel room in Dalton, GA where we are right now. These days we really aren’t into driving straight through. We prefer to break up a trip and not be so exhausted once we get there.  We can't check in to our cabin til' 3 pm today, so this morning we slept in til 10 am, and now we are headed out to make the rest of our journey through the mountains and will arrive at our cabin this afternoon. The above photo is from where we ate our Valentines Day Dinner from the road.   It was cute little Denny's diner.  I had pancakes. Re...

Are you really ready for a serious relationship?

If I speak with human eloquence and angelic ecstasy but don't love, I'm nothing but the creaking of a rusty gate.  If I speak God's Word with power, revealing all his mysteries and making everything plain as day, and if I have faith that says to a mountain, "Jump," and it jumps, but I don't love, I'm nothing.  If I give everything I own to the poor and even go to the stake to be burned as a martyr, but I don't love, I've gotten nowhere. So, no matter what I say, what I believe, and what I do, I'm bankrupt without love. Love never gives up. Love cares more for others than for self. Love doesn't want what it doesn't have. Love doesn't strut, Doesn't have a swelled head, Doesn't force itself on others, Isn't always "me first," Doesn't fly off the handle, Doesn't keep score of the sins of others, Doesn't revel when others grovel, Takes pleasure in the flowering of truth, Puts up w...

Speaking of intimate time...

Larry and I are leaving after church tomorrow afternoon to go to Tennessee for Valentines week! We are finally taking the trip that was given to us  by the church during  pastor appreciation trip in October, now that Maddie is healed from her accident. We will be away for a week putting everything (and more) in practice that I talked about on the blog yesterday. Can't wait! We're staying here.   It's a cabin in Gatlinburg, TN and we have the whole place to ourselves.  If you click on the link I just gave, go the left hand side at the bottom of the page to look at all the photos of the house.  It's amazing!  The photo above is the Master bedroom. I'm consumed today with packing and getting last minute things done for church and our trip.  This past week I doubled up on all my work at the church, many hours longer than normal to get everything done before I leave so that I really can leave my work behind .  I can't...

Make your husband happy this weekend (and longer if you dare!)

Sunday is Valentines Day.  We should make it a priority to live,  love and laugh all the time.  Life is hard, but successful people focus on the good things that they have and love deeply despite the hard times, and even find something to laugh about through the difficulties.  For many, obstacles become the all consuming focal point.   Holidays like Valentines Day are a good time to refocus on what we need to do all the time but often become too overwhelmed to do.    If you are married, what you do in that regard should be what I call "love on steroids."  Express why your spouse still means so much to you.  (If they don't still mean so much to you, this would be a great time for you to ask God to help you get a fresh perspective of them.  He can/will do it, if you just ask.  How do I know this?  He's done it in our marriage.)  Anybody has their ups and downs in marriage and we've certainly...

The Max and Maddie Chronicles

What was life like before we had Max?  He fits in so well I can hardly remember not having him! Both of them lay down next to us in bed, and they snuggle up a lot.  Here, Maxie (as I often call him) is falling asleep first as usual while Maddie watches over him and a little while later falls to sleep.  You will notice that Maddie still has this one large scar from her accident.  I don't think this one is going to go away.  That's okay.  She's still our beautiful Madeline no matter what.  Scars just show where God has brought us from, that's all.   By the way, I was the first one to refer to Max as "Maxie" -- which is my special name for him and the rest of the family HATED it -- I mean truly abhored it, and corrected me profusely.  But they all now also refer to him as Maxie.  Go figure!     Max is more of a cuddler than Maddie and doesn't like to be alone at all.   He cries if left alone and my hea...

He chose LIFE!!!

  "This day I call heaven and earth as witnesses against you that I have set before you life and death, blessings and curses. Now choose life, so that you and your children may live."  Deuteronomy 30:19 God blew my mind yesterday. I've just got to share this, while being extremely careful not to break any confidentialities. [Name has been changed, no identifying details shared.]  Last week I began working with a job seeker who I will call Tony, who had been laid off for many months.  There are times as a job coach that I don't always receive a job seeker right when they have been laid off, in fact I've worked with people who have been out of a job for as many as 6-9 months.  In Tony's case when I had my first meeting with him last week he was extremely depressed, getting ready to lose his house, with no job in sight.   He had given up hope and several times during our meeting told me he saw no other option but to give up and take his l...