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What To Do First to Make a Profit

The PF Women Team at our Annual Team Retreat  ~ 2018 Today on Seth Godin's blog, he said: It's tempting to decide to make a profit first, then invest in training, people, facilities, promotion, customer service and most of all, doing important work. In general, though, it goes the other way. Yes, it does. If you are waiting to make a profit before you do these things, in my experience you're  not going to make a profit. So many organizations, ministries and churches are struggling with financial issues. I know your pain. As anyone who follows our story knows, our ministry was in a ton of debt four years ago when I came on as director.  Since that time, we've gotten out of debt and turned a profit every year.  God has done amazing things through out team, for which we give Him the glory! I find that what Seth is saying here is absolutely true, with one disclaimer. For Christian leaders, spiritual disciplines must always be first. Before we started i...

5 Steps to Take When It Doesn't Get Any Better

Reality check: some things don’t get better. That doesn’t mean nothing gets better, but it means some situations won’t. There are adversities in life that are managed – not cured. For instance, you may have diabetes and while it may not be cured it can be managed. There are also relationships that may not experience the improvement desired, but you can navigate them with God's help. I am a person who lives in the supernatural as well as the natural, and know that God does the impossible. And at the same time, as many miracles as I’ve seen (and there have been a lot) there have been just as many times that what I or others prayed for didn’t happen. What do you do at that point when something you live with daily is clearly not improving and you need help, STAT?   Realize YOU Can Get Better Even if This Doesn’t   Just because one aspect of your life isn’t going well, doesn’t mean everything in your life has to be the same way. The challenge you ...

You Think You Know...But You Don't!
(Why "Should" Needs a Funeral, and Quickly!)

One of my friends takes care of her young adult son 24/7, who is paralyzed from a car accident. Another friend has struggled with infertility for fifteen years. Yet another friend is beaten so bad by her husband at least once a month that sometimes she has to wait two weeks before going back to church so that all the bruises will disappear and no one will suspect. "Why doesn't she just leave?" you say.

What Would Happen If You Took Your Own Advice?

Meeting on Sunday night with the young ladies who are part of the group I'm mentoring at Celebration , I noticed they had some fantastic advice for one another. I was impressed! (I learn just as much from the girls as they do from me!) I followed up with a question: What would be possible in your life if you took your own advice? I find it always helps me to step back from my own situation and imagine I was advising a stranger with my same issue. Rarely do I lack a sense of the wise thing to do. But I don't always make that choice, at least immediately. A few reasons why... I know it's going to require hard change. I know if another party is involved, it may make them unhappy and I want to avoid drama.  The pain of staying the same is not greater than the pain of changing...yet.