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What To Do First to Make a Profit

The PF Women Team at our Annual Team Retreat  ~ 2018 Today on Seth Godin's blog, he said: It's tempting to decide to make a profit first, then invest in training, people, facilities, promotion, customer service and most of all, doing important work. In general, though, it goes the other way. Yes, it does. If you are waiting to make a profit before you do these things, in my experience you're  not going to make a profit. So many organizations, ministries and churches are struggling with financial issues. I know your pain. As anyone who follows our story knows, our ministry was in a ton of debt four years ago when I came on as director.  Since that time, we've gotten out of debt and turned a profit every year.  God has done amazing things through out team, for which we give Him the glory! I find that what Seth is saying here is absolutely true, with one disclaimer. For Christian leaders, spiritual disciplines must always be first. Before we started i...

"How Did Your Books Get Published?"

Many people have asked me this question. The answer is... I didn’t want to get out of bed or brush my teeth. I was so broken emotionally, it hurt to breathe. My upper body was in such pain that I rubbed it constantly. As I spoke to people I would cross my hands over my body and knead my shoulders, back, neck and arms over and over again - not caring about how bizarre it must have looked. (No one can ever tell me that emotional injury doesn't manifest in one's body.) Credit: freedigitalphotos.net I could have cared less about appearances. If people thought I was a freak, so be it. I was so terribly wounded and quite frankly at a dangerous place. I was close to checking in to a hospital. I really don't know what stopped me. A visit to a Christian therapist revealed I was suffering from complex trauma, significant loss and complicated grief.   In the midst of my suffering, I blogged for catharsis. I didn't care about prettying anything up. Quit...

When Relationships Break and You Desperately Want to Be Whole Again

Have your hopes been dashed into pieces when you tried to make a relationship work and the other person didn’t respond as you wished? Have you asked someone to forgive you, but   he or she didn’t respond as you desired? Have you prayed for healing in a relationship, but your prayers haven’t been answered?    I understand these overwhelming disappointments all too well, as one of the most important relationships in my life was lost.  I am offering insights from the journey of that devastating experience to help not only those who have faced similar circumstances, but …   Restored brings a message of hope to everyone that you can be restored, even when a relationship isn’t.   YOU can be restored, even if the other person doesn’t respond as you wished. YOU can be restored, even if your spouse leaves you. YOU can be restored, even if your parent rejects you. YOU can be restored, even if a friend betrays you. YOU can be restore...