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What To Do First to Make a Profit

The PF Women Team at our Annual Team Retreat  ~ 2018 Today on Seth Godin's blog, he said: It's tempting to decide to make a profit first, then invest in training, people, facilities, promotion, customer service and most of all, doing important work. In general, though, it goes the other way. Yes, it does. If you are waiting to make a profit before you do these things, in my experience you're  not going to make a profit. So many organizations, ministries and churches are struggling with financial issues. I know your pain. As anyone who follows our story knows, our ministry was in a ton of debt four years ago when I came on as director.  Since that time, we've gotten out of debt and turned a profit every year.  God has done amazing things through out team, for which we give Him the glory! I find that what Seth is saying here is absolutely true, with one disclaimer. For Christian leaders, spiritual disciplines must always be first. Before we started i...

My "outside the church" friend

If you are a pastor and you don't have a friend in your local community who doesn't go to your church, I recommend that you find one. I know I had said a lot about minister friends and their value to me in preserving my health in the ministry. But there's another person who is a great God-send in my life and I'm so thankful for her. So I'm going to tell you about her today. Because I like to introduce you blog readers to the many special people in my life. This is one of the absolute tippy top people in my world! My friend's name is Ada (pronounced Add-uh) Alfonso, (pictured above with her husband and two youngest children), she lives here in Tampa, and she's my friend and my hairdresser, in that order. Ada has improved my hair 100% but most of all she's improved my mental health. And she has enriched my life so much spiritually. Let's see, where do I start in telling you about her? She's one of the most incredible people I know. There are many m...

Tea is the least of my problems

“Oh, the comfort, the inexpressible comfort of feeling safe with a person, having neither to weigh thoughts nor measure words, but pouring them all out, just as they are, chaff and grain together, certain that a faithful hand will take and sift them, keep what is worth keeping, and with a breath of kindness blow the rest away.” - George Eliot Thank God for women minister friends and times we can gather for conversation over tea or coffee together, to pour out our words to one another...without measuring. (I'll be there in four more days, Pastor Lisa !!!) I'm sure after yesterday's post , some of you are thinking, "Gee whiz, I wish not having any iced tea was the worst problem in my life." Let me assure you...it is my least problem. But as I said yesterday, it's one I can safely blog about, albeit a very small issue. If I had my way, I'd blog about every single intimate detail of my life (I'm sure that scares some of you to death...!) What can I say, I...

My drinking problem

Back to reality. I knew the high from Unstoppable would wind down at some point. I'm still wildly excited about the results, however I'm back to the real world. I can't wait to go to Houston, TX this weekend to be with Pastor Lisa and minister at her church! :-) It couldn't have come at a better time. I was concerned when we booked this that I'd be drained from Unstoppable and perhaps not at my best. But quite truthfully I think I can preach at my best right now, I am just needing a break from home. There are times I can't wait to get home and times I can't wait to be on the road (or in the sky) and this is one such time. I can't get packed fast enough. Get ready, get ready, get ready Pastor Lisa...we're in store for a great time in God. I am so ready to be there with you. Had a few irritating things that happened today - not enough to steal my joy from Unstoppable but just enough to make me very emotionally tired and think, "yep, we are back ...

Reflections from the Unstoppable Conference...Part II and...UPDATED!!!

If this is the first you are reading about the results of the Unstoppable Conference , please be sure to read my post from yesterday first . Well, I'm still "holding the baby". Allow me to explain... Thursday night was the opening night of Unstoppable. It was a night I'll never forget, seeing my dream come true before my eyes. What a God thing - larger than anything I could have ever imagined, or worked for! The room was breathtaking. The first night was a banquet and we had a candlelight dinner - steak or chicken with a boursin cheese sauce. We had favors for the women - bookmarks that Aida made - they had our conference theme verse and they were so pretty. The tables (for the banquet) were set with mirror tiles and candles. Music set the atmosphere, and the multi-media was just perfect. P astor T, Pastor Lindsay, Tom Garland, Dustin, Sterling (Dustin's friend) and myself were at the Hilton on Wed night until about 1 am finishing everything up with just the media...

UNSTOPPABLE was off the chain!

Well everybody, as you can see I haven't been here on the blog for a few days and it's because I didn't want to miss a moment of the Unstoppable Conference! It was so incredible it's really indescribable, but I'll try in just a few words. I'm too tired to write much as I've poured myself out so much the last three days and I do have to teach and preach tomorrow (twice) and I want to spend some more time with Larry. He came to the conference everyday, but we really haven't connected... The conference totally exceeded my expectations and my dreams. It was so good to see several people from the message boards including Pastor Tara, Tracy, Pastor Donna, and several others which shall be unnamed (due to being anonymous on the boards.) The worship was off the charts! The Word? SO POWERFUL. The altar time? Amazing! Simply amazing. Before the conference I was wondering, "will there be a next year?" (This is so much work, and to say I've had to ferv...

It feels like it's the night before Christmas

I feel like a kid again, on the night before Christmas. Here we are on the night before Unstoppable. Is it really here? Wonderful visions are dancing in my head, that's for sure! The past few days have been so busy getting ready for it. Tonight after service, Pastor T, Pastor Lindsay and I are taking all the stuff for the media over to the Hilton in a truck we rented for the weekend. (Yes, it's taking a rental truck just to bring our media stuff over - this doesn't include the sound stuff which will be brought by Jenn and her team from Southeastern!) Tonight at 10 pm we begin by setting up the trusses, the screens, the projectors, computer, power point, stage light stands, etc. We want to have all that fully automated so that tomorrow when the worship team rolls in with the equipment all the media will be in place. I realize some people think, "why do you need all that stuff?" Just get a keyboard, and stick a pastor's wife up on the piano and let her lead in a...

When you resign...don't ask for a casserole

Such is the title of a book that Pastor Lindsay wants to write. (And I think she should!) She came up with the brilliant title...I can't take any credit for it at all. Alright, ready for my latest rant? It's about people who leave a church and then still want all the benefits of that church. One time we had a staff member that resigned of their own accord under less than good terms. They should have been fired after many insubordinate and inappropriate incidents, but my husband is an incredibly grace filled man. So, after resigning, they left but then seemed to still want all the benefits of the church, right down to people delivering casseroles to their house. The behavior was a bit puzzling, at least for the remaining staff members who were sane. The staff was thinking, "um, you are lucky pastor didn't wring your neck let alone send somebody over to your place with a casserole..." So yesterday the staff was at lunch and we were talking about church people who se...