I Found My New Best Friend Last Night

Landing on someone else's blog last night as I was reading before bedtime, I was delighted by what I found.

"Oh my gosh, who IS this chick? We think exactly a like! Seriously. I think I found my new best friend..."

I was all excited.

I had found my literary clone. I wondered if she also liked bike riding and dark roast coffee. I was about to announce myself to her via the comment section with a link to one of my recent posts. I was ready to co-write a post with her and let the wonder-twin power activate, when I scrolled down, only to be devastated...

The blogger was quoting ME in her post.

It was me I found.

Darn.

Then I realized it may be a confirmation.

My therapist recently told me that I need to be content in my own company -- to finally be my own best friend.

So there you go. Just as quick as I lost my new best friend last night, I found her.

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