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Monday reflections

Sorry to all peeps who get irritated when I don't post in the mornings. :) I know I affected your day so please accept my apologies. lol

Mondays are always slammed and today I was trying hard to knock out projects while being extremely tired because after leadership meeting Sunday night we talked late into the night with some who stayed. Always worth it though! What precious people...what a great team. We had a fantastic day at church yesterday, by the way!

After work I went home, biked 3 and 1/2 miles and then got ready to go meet the Garlands at Sonny's for Tom's Dad's "remembrance'" dinner. Today was his Dad's birthday and since his Dad has passed away he always eats at Sonny's on today's date since it was his Dad's favorite place to eat. It's a hard day for Tom and he wanted us to join him, so we did. Not that we don't like joining them ANYTIME! Tonight we had a good time talking and laughing lots and thinking of happy things. I came home to work on a few writing projects and now I"m hitting the sack with the Teeb.

That was my day. I'll post some deep thoughts later this week...promise!



Comments

Lori said…
I love Sonny's BBQ! Too bad it's not a northern thing. Well, maybe it's good or I would want to eat there all the time. Instread we plan our trips south around when meal times are and where the Sonny's are!

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