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Whittling away


"To be nobody but yourself in a world which is doing its best,
night and day, to make you everybody else
means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight -- and never stop fighting. "
~ E. E. Cummings

***

I wish it weren't so hard.

I wish the battle didn't exist.

I wish I wouldn't have to fight.

But it is, it does, and I have to.

Or I die.

I've heard it said if you keep trimming yourself down to what someone else expects you will soon whittle away to nothing.

I believe it. So I keep fighting.



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Anonymous said…
And we're all really bad at being anyone other than who God has created us to be!!!!

As you've said to me so many times...I understand :o).
4:02 PM
Melissa said…
hmmmm, fighting with you my friend.
12:55 AM
Deanna Doss Shrodes said…
Thanks my understanding friends... :-)
4:57 PM
Melissa Davis said…
Wow, that was really deep! Its amazing how much can be said in just a few words. I can truly say that I can relate.

Fighting together for one another, Lots of Love, Pastor Melissa
9:36 PM
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