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What To Do First to Make a Profit

The PF Women Team at our Annual Team Retreat  ~ 2018 Today on Seth Godin's blog, he said: It's tempting to decide to make a profit first, then invest in training, people, facilities, promotion, customer service and most of all, doing important work. In general, though, it goes the other way. Yes, it does. If you are waiting to make a profit before you do these things, in my experience you're  not going to make a profit. So many organizations, ministries and churches are struggling with financial issues. I know your pain. As anyone who follows our story knows, our ministry was in a ton of debt four years ago when I came on as director.  Since that time, we've gotten out of debt and turned a profit every year.  God has done amazing things through out team, for which we give Him the glory! I find that what Seth is saying here is absolutely true, with one disclaimer. For Christian leaders, spiritual disciplines must always be first. Before we started i...

Scenes from today...

After waking Savanna up for school at 6:30, we slept til' noon.  It was glorious.  There's nothing like snoozing with Maddie.  She's a great footwarmer.  Then we just stayed there, writing and listening to music, spending a quiet day together.  This to me is paradise. A perfect day off.  Larry laid there with us most of the day but then he had to get up and take the kids to the Oasis Youth Ministry hayride.  Maddie and I continued to rest, read, write, watch movies and just lay in the silence.   My Fun Fridays are best when there is NOTHING to do.  I go, go, go so much that a day just to lay there is more special to me than anything.  Tomorrow will be another day to work.

"Just Say It" Series: Pastor Appreciation

I am currently in a church that is WONDERFUL about "Pastor Appreciation Month" not only in October but all year round.  I am so blessed.   However, I haven't always been in this situation.  And, I know countless others who experience pain not only every October when this rolls around, but all throughout the year.  Yesterday I received a letter in my box that is all too common.  I get these type of letters all the time, being that I am friends with many women in ministry and also due to the fact that back in 1998 I founded the Pastoring Partners Network , an international resource that helps and empowers women in ministry.  Through this organization, I receive much correspondence on a regular basis of this nature.  It is heartbreaking and gives me much to pray about.  I got this letter yesterday and asked the woman who wrote it if I could share it as part of this blog series.  She readily agreed, hoping it would h...

Richest Woman in the World!

“Whatever they grow up to be, they are still our children, and the one most important of all the things we can give to them is unconditional love. Not a love that depends on anything at all except that they are our children.”    Rosaleen Dickson  When I think about my family, I realize that I am the richest woman in the world.  I have a husband who adores me, and three children who do too.   Recently each one of my children wrote me a letter that rocked my world.  In particular there was a one from my daughter that just blew me away.   I was not just impressed, I was moved to a pile of tears.  I won't share it all with you here except for the photo I've included above, but I will just say it was incredible.  Today I'd like to share with you a few things that have been proven true time and again in raising my children. I'm not the perfect parent and they aren't the perfect children.  However, we are p...

"Just Say It" Series:
People will be held accountable for how they treat pastor's children.

I was away this past weekend but I understand from folks at church that my husband preached an amazing message.  He spoke among other things about the way pastor's children are treated and what a difference it makes, for good or for bad.  Our children, particularly our boys, have had to have some real inner healing for things they have experienced in the ministry.    My husband always says to our church, "if you want to show me love and appreciation, the best way you can do it is...love my kids!"  At the first church where we served as lead pastors, our son Jordan was thrown across a room by a nursery worker.   We didn't last very long there.  Larry and I would not stay in a place where our children would be physically abused.    The next church that we pastored had a Christian school and during a part of our time there, the kids attended the school.  Keep in mind, all of the administration and teachers attended the...

Re-entry into the real world

Taking today off from both jobs to spend quiet time and reflect with my babe.   Back tomorrow with blog series. 

I haven't been home for 3 days and 3 nights...

Some things don't change much in 22 years... they just get more intense... So when I get home tonight, my cell phone will still be off til' in the morning... Priorities, you know.

"And I shall dwell in the house of the Lord, forever..."

I'm always at church.  I grew up in church, was there every time the doors were open and many days when it wasn't, because were were always doing something there.  I went right on in adulthood to serve the church and it's people and have lived Psalm 69:9 ~ "Passion for your house consumes me..."   I love it so much I have seriously dreamed of purchasing an old church that is no longer being used as a church and renovating it to live in.  Well, somebody actually did it!  The church pictured above is somebody's residential home now.  Read on for the details and all the amazing photos.  Thanks, Sister Coker, [mentor & friend]  for this amazing find!  Sis. C said she'd love to do the same thing but wonders about the cost of utilities.  A nondescript exterior and a yard dominated by headstones give no indication of the residential nature of this historic church in Kyloe, Northumberland.   A couple d...