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Did God Plan My Pain?



Some people have a hard time understanding God's love for them because they think He planned what hurts them so much.

I'm passionate about sharing that God is a good God.
Until people understand that, they won't ever see Him clearly and be able to freely receive His love.

Something that makes this difficult are people who tell others that God planned the process that caused their pain.


It's so important to read our Bibles.

"This is the message we have heard from him and declare to you: God is light; in him there is no darkness at all." I John 1:5

"Oh give thanks to the LORD, for He is good, For His loving kindness is everlasting." Psalm 107:1

"I am the good shepherd. The good shepherd gives His life for the sheep." John 10:11

"Every good gift and perfect gift is from above, and comes down from the Father of lights, with whom there is no variation or shadow of turning." James 1:17

"The Lord is good to all, and His tender mercies are over all His works." Psalm 145:9

I always say that God is sooooo easy for me to love, because He is good.
He has never done me anything but good.

I can open myself to Him, fully. 
I can freely give myself to Him in worship, in trusting Him with the deepest secrets of my heart.
I can do this without fear, for He is good.

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