Do people get excited when they hear your voice on the phone?
How quickly do people return your calls?
Do people want to help you?
Are you the family member that makes other family members praise the Lord that caller ID was invented?
These are things you might want to think about.
Nobody's responsibilities are peachy 100% of the time. We all have parts of our job or our life that we may not enjoy as much. A lot of people procrastinate or put those things off, simply because they aren't looking forward to it. I'll admit, I do it too at times.
Today I had a draining call and after I hung up needed an Advil. And I thought to myself, "What's the takeaway from this? What can I learn from this?"
Rather than ruminate about the call and how I thought the other person should change, I decided to relate it to improving myself which is the best thing any leader can do. We can't change others but we can do something about ourselves. I thought to myself:
I want to be the voice everyone wants to hear on the other end of the line when the phone rings. When I call people I want them to do a little happy dance and go, OH. MY. GOSH. it's Deanna Shrodes on the phone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! This is the best thing to happen to me today!
I never want someone to avoid my call, or feel like they are getting a migraine when we hang up.
Seriously, now. Being a person who lights up somebody's phone world is possible. How do I know? There are people who do it for me. There are people who call me and I can't wait to hear what they have to say! I base this on all of our past conversations. This is doable. It's not just wishful thinking.
I can be the voice everyone wants to hear when the phone rings. So can you.
Let's try it.
What would be possible in our lives, in our leadership if people couldn't wait to talk to us because it's just so darn pleasant?