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The morning after...

Yesterday was such a busy day, I'm E-X-H-A-U-S-T-E-D, but it's all worth it.

We had a great day at The Spice Conference and so many of the couples thanked us for what was for some a life changing day.  Through times like this I'm reminded that there's nothing quite as great as a marriage that's going right and nothing as painful as one that's  not.  I've been in both situations so I understand things from both perspectives. I'm glad we were able to bring some hope to those who wonder if things can get better.  (Yes!  They can!  We're living proof.)

I'm not sure what happened but as I was going to the Spice Conference dinner last night I came down with either an allergic reaction (sneezing, itchy eyes, runny nose while simultaneously not being able to breathe freely) and was pretty much miserable while I was trying to teach and do our Q & A .  I came home and took a warm shower to clear my sinuses and took a few Benadryl's.  I'm hoping it was just an allergic reaction - not a cold.  As the day unfolds we'll see...it's another thing to pray away.

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