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A kiss a day...


One reason I'm so glad to be home and back into my routine is because big part of that is just the everyday time spent with the one I love. I miss our routine when we are away. Each and every day we spend a significant amount of time (outside of work) together. Actually although we work in the same office, we are separated much of the day on different projects. So our time together is mostly in the evenings. And we always MAKE THE TIME.

Why many married couples don't make time for this I'll never know. Well, that's not true. I DO know. The fact is, women become mothers and forget they are lovers. And sadly enough most think it's biblical to do that. They even think it's saintly. But the truth is, that's not the way God wants it at all. Not only is it not His plan, it's not good for you in the natural either.

Many married couples today don't even make time for a kiss a day. What a shame! A simple kiss can change your life! A study conducted during the 1980's found that men who kiss their wives before leaving for work live longer, get into fewer car accidents, and have a higher income than married men who don't. Hey, after hearing that I'm thinking, heck, let's make out before work...in my case, maybe even AT work? (Seriously, I wish there was time for that...in our office we are working 90 to nothing getting stuff done...but when I get home, now that's a different story.)

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